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I so agree, 33. It may very well be that there will be no "aha" moment with any group, but at least Confused will have the basis to say: "Okay, no 'aha' moments, but based on my visits I can go with ABC without wondering if I chose too hastily". She has a basis for comparison which she currently does not have and understands that she lacks.

Confused, please take a deep breath and continue with your plan. You are on the right track. This first group may be the right group, but as you surmise, you won't know until you see other groups. If they really value you, they will give you time with the bid. Also, take a moment and do some research on this board about your school. DO NOT TELL US THE SCHOOL (emphasis in the nicest way possible in an abundance of caution). Learn for yourself whether it is one where sophomores rarely get bids or is it one where there is either an upperclass quota or a good mix of freshmen and sophomores in NM classes. You might -- based on good due diligence -- decide that COB is a great opportunity to visit houses with the expectation of going through formal in the fall. This approach carries a lot of uncertainty, so do your homework. Optimally though, you will find the group for you this Spring. Good luck!