[KSUViolet06]

I mean, I think everything I do is a mistake, I always find something wrong with what I do, could be playing a song on guitar or giving a speech - I'm always too hard on myself - it's possible I did nothing wrong and just didn't get invited back because the computer system was screwed up. I mean, I overthink everything and even now i'm absolutely FREAKING out for Spring but at the same time I'm more confident if that makes sense.

I'm going to say this as nicely as possible because this is a common myth that is perpetuated by PNMs. The computer glitch.

The computer software does not just "lose people."

Even if (by some strange occurrence) there is any hint of a screw up or a missing PNM who was supposed to get an invite, chapters back up EVERYTHING and have the info available to correct any errors.

Ex: If Suzie by some stretch of the imagination was supposed to be on your invite list and you see that she's not, you're going to be the first to let her Rho Gamma know that there may have been a computer mix up and get her invite to her. No one is going to say "the computer messed up and there's no Suzie on our list. Oh well."

The chances of you just disappearing from the system are slim.

I'm not sure why the chapters chose not to invite you back but I can almost guarantee that you didn't just disappear from ICS.

Either way, no need to beat yourself up.

Consider what you can do differently next time.

Good luck!