Princess2002:
I don't regret my decision at all, I did not feel like I could have contributed to the house that gave me a bid. I'm not deluding myself to think that I will get a bid from my number one choice. Luckily for me there are 16 chapters at UF and I would be happy at 8 of them.
You DO NOT have to accept a bid if you are not comfortable with it. If you choose to rush again and then pledge, the process will mean so much more to you. Good Luck