[pinksequins]

LIG, please really consider the following. We do not know you outside of your posts and, unfortunately, they are becoming more about your injured feelings than about your daughter. From what we can discern, your daughter doesn't have hurt feelings and is progressing well in a very challenging recruitment! Excellent! Stepping back is to extricate your sensitivities from hers so that you can listen and help without clouded judgment. Deep breaths, and if you have a Trader Joe's nearby, the Gypsy Chariot is actually quite good.