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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
You had a bad rush. The only way to expect a different outcome is to change something about yourself. And I don't buy being from out of state was the problem. So sit down with yourself and really think about what happened. How are your grades? How are your conversation skills? Are you weird? Were you dressed appropriately? Do you have friends in sororities now? Do you think you're funny but nobody else does? Are you a slob?
Whatever it is, get on fixing that now and possibly you will have a better outcome next year.
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While it's not SEC-sized by any means, 650 is still a lot of women, and it's possible to be "fine" but just not stand out or be memorable in any way. Have you made friends with women who are in chapters (and real friendships, not just trying to suck up to them)? I'm not that familiar with U of M, but I have been involved at other Big 10 schools, and I think knowing sorority women is one of the biggest keys to having a successful recruitment as a sophomore.
Also, you are going to have to let go of your "top chapter" and approach recruitment with a totally open mind.