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Do you want leadership opportunities - to grow and learn - or do you want the "easier" leadership position? Or do you want it to be "more impressive"? If you're worthy of a leadership position, the fact there are more in competition with you should not be a huge factor. Plus, do you want "leadership" opportunities in a fraternity that does "some hazing"? I hope not.
Your father and uncle will share everything with you but the letters and rituals; theirs will be similar, but not identical. They'll understand your experiences. If this is a good organization for you, follow through and make something of it. If not, "ya pays yer money and ya takes yer chances."
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Laws alone can not secure freedom of expression; in order that every man present his views without penalty there must be spirit of tolerance in the entire population.-Einstein |