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Originally posted by 33girl:
Barbara - I thought NPC's policy was that if you KNEW you weren't going to bid a girl you were supposed to release her as soon as possible? So as not to get her hopes up.
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33Girl - This is the way it is on our campus - so it may not be the same for other campus groups. All I know is that we have had several girls that we knew we didn't want (nor any other group) because of her previous actions - I'm not saying "we just don't like her..." I mean like more than one sister has spoken privately to our rush board about reasons she doesn't meet our standards. Yet we STILL have to invite her back the second night as long as she has grades. We don't have to invite her back to our 3rd night (for us after the 2nd night we can cut, and the girl must cut one out of our 5 GLO's). Usually the girl will get invited back until the 3rd party, but then cut after the party before she is invited to attend preference. We do this to "keep things fair" for the girl and to keep rush a positive thing (supposedly). It makes me mad because a girl actually told me she just wanted to party and that they called her "Tequilla Sheila" at all the frat houses! Yet she came to all 3 parties and was cut before pref! Stupid, huh? Anyway, I don't know how any other campus does it, but this is how we do it.