Sometimes I wonder if the PX's are really doing their jobs. I've lost count of how many girls during formal rush ask me questions about suicides etc.
I generally tell the girls that if they know that they would depledge immediately, or that they'd be completely miserable in a particular house, then to not list them.
I don't say "Yeah suicide it's great and you'll get exactly what you want." I'm honest and tell them that a sorority could want you too and still not get a bid.
Part of the reason for that is because girls put down BBB as #2 then freak out and "depledge" on bid day. That always pisses me off because then nobody wins. The sorortiy loses both the girl that wanted them and the girl who got counted io their quota. And both rushees end up unhappy.
Of course I do believe that girls CAN be happy at their #2 or #3 choice. But if they never give the houses a chance it just sucks.
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