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Originally Posted by bigten
so i'm a freshman at a big ten school with average greek life (slightly competitive). I rushed and got my first choice bid to a top tier sorority. However, it wasn't what I expected at all and I ended up dropping well before initiation. But I think it just wasn't a right fit, I still like the idea of being in a sorority. Would it look bad to re-rush next fall?
Also, there is a chance I'm transferring to another big ten school closer to home next year (also with average greek life). Would it then matter as much that I had rushed at my old school? Also I'm a legacy for a good sorority at the new school as well.
Thanks so much girls!  |
I'm not trying to sound harsh here, but I find your post rather ironic. You got a bid to a "top tier" sorority, found out it wasn't where you were meant to be, but now you're talking about being a legacy to a "good" sorority at your potential new school.
You need to not focus on "tiers" and reputations and simply go through recruitment and find the best fit for YOU. You already wasted your time (for lack of a better phrase) with a sorority that you
possibly chose due to their "top tier" status, and you ended up disappointed. You need to evaluate who you are and what you want and go after that.