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I've said this before, and I'll say it again.
I came from a smallish chapter (pledge class ~30). It was the chapter I wanted all the way through recruitment & I was overjoyed to get a bid there. Several of my friends also pledged there.
HOWEVER, I did not really feel "home" there until recruitment as a sophomore. Hours of putting up decorations, moving through bump groups, cleaning the house, memorizing PNM names... that's what made me a sister of the wine and blue.
Furthermore, a lot of my best friends in the house are the girls I recruited that year.
Give it time. Recruit from the other side & get to know your current sisters & find girls you love & make them sisters!
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