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Old 12-06-2014, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Mizzou14 View Post
I am filled with regret, because I feel as though I should have put #2 as #1. It's possible that I could've gotten into #2 if I had ranked them first. I honestly think about it every day and am just filled with bitterness for the system. My chapter does not feel like home to me. I don't feel as though I mesh well with the dynamics of it, and I do not enjoy it. I know that lookin into the past does no good, but it is hard to control my thoughts.
No, you were not on #2's first list. They filled to quota before your name came up. It would not have mattered where you ranked them, they did not rank you high enough. I hope I do not sound harsh, but the only chapter that had you ranked highly was your #3. I am truly sorry that Greek life did not turn out how as you had hoped. Maybe after some time you will be able to get involved as an alumna and develop an appreciation for your chapter. You spend more time as an alumna, than as an active.
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