[MathMom]

That is a great thread. It's an excellent idea in general to remember to actively & consciously find something good to say.

It's funny but that's my second reminder today about active kindness. We (meaning MathDaughter [while I do like MathKid, since she has a brother Kid 1 and Kid 2 seem just a little too impersonal], MathSon, and I) were watching Big Bang Theory this afternoon and Howard was telling Bernadette that a happy marriage isn't built on telling your partner all the things you dislike about them.

Anyway, it's not a large Greek system-nowhere near 15 chapters. It is a very solidly well-established one. We do happen to be from an area that does have large and very competitive systems. She was looking for a particular specification in a college and those schools didn't have it so she's going somewhere different (that she fell in love with) but most of her rec writers will be writing for those schools, and will be writing for large numbers of young women.

The NPC groups at her future school are all excellent, we know some wonderful women from each of them, and she'd be honored to get a bid from any of them.