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I just wanted to add that I understand that there is a policy in place and stressing recs stresses PNMs. That said, I'd rather see a girl be "stressed" and running her tail off getting recs, as enough people have indicated can make a difference between being cut or not, than going in blind, paying the fees, buying the clothes, dreaming of sorority life only to be HEARTBROKEN when she is cut. That would be the bigger travesty. Lot's of girls have no idea what to do or how to prepare because they haven't been groomed. GC is one place where they can find out some of what legacies know and have a more equal footing.
Maybe it's because of the place I live and what I've seen. What I do know is my daughter would have been cut from 90% of the sororities if she didn't have a rec. It was a blanket statement by the Rho Chis. I'm glad we both took the advice seriously.
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