[PeppyGPhiB]

OP was only a member for a semester (if that) before she transferred. So an advisory role wouldn't be appropriate, IMO.

OP, is it possible the members of the chapter at your new campus felt that you might have been trying to game the system, joining the sorority at another (non competitive) campus and then transferring to a competitive campus? I have no idea of the schools involved, and I'm not suggesting this is what you did, I just know from this board that in some regions (especially south) this happens, and chapters will sometimes not accept affiliates as a result. I like the suggestion from one of the posters to try to get to know the women in the chapter; perhaps they would be willing to reconsider your affiliation in the future. It would be a shame for you to resign your membership, though; it seems to me that there would be nothing for you to gain from that, but you could lose so many future opportunities at friendship, networking, volunteering, etc.