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I am really sorry this happened to you. I would feel rejected and sad too. I agree, maybe the chapter has never had a transfer affiliate in recent memory, maybe they are socially awkward, maybe you dodged a big bullet.
Check out local alumni groups, and stay involved if you can. Alumni membership is great fun. Opportunities abound, and you never know where you might end up.
My chapter had the opportunity to affiliate a transfer student second semester of her junior year. Despite her short time in our chapter, she ended up being one of my best buds in the house, and I loved welcoming her to our chapter. I am sorry the same didn't happen for you, but seriously, you may have dodged a bullet. I would hate to be assigned an essay rather than talk in person!
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