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Originally Posted by sweetheart272
i feel it's very unfair that one incident (whether it is worthy of strict punishment or not) could mean that i couldn't even participate in alumna teas 50 years from now. do you really think i'd still be a crazy PR risk as a 70 year old lady? .... i don't think mistakes you make in college should limit you from doing things later in life as an adult.
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YES YES YES the things you do in college absolutely DO limit your options and opportunities in later life! Your actions at this point in your life can easily follow you F-O-R-E-V-E-R.
All I keep seeing over & over in your many posts is ME and I, what YOU think. I guess it needs to be said more pointedly that it does not matter what YOU think is fair or unfair. Sorry, I know that you disagree, but that is life. You don't get to choose what is considered fair by other people.
Sorority membership is a privilege, both as an active and as an alumna. If your chapter has gone as far as to vote to terminate your membership, I am afraid that "the tribe has spoken."