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Originally Posted by pinksequins
Please pay attention. People have tried to be patient with you and provide advice but you insist on doing it your way by, in your words, "being right". That is an approach that will fail (without very clear facts to the contrary) .
Hitting you with a proverbial ton of bricks has not seemed to register with you. Perhaps your chapter has also gotten fatigued with trying to address things with you? Your constructive options are -- as was pointed out -- contrition or early alumna status.
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i know, you're totally right. it is a flaw of mine that i come off as argumentative, defensive, or ignorant to what other people are saying.
it's unintentional, and i'm working to improve it, but yes, unfortunately i do have difficulties communicating with others because usually their thinking and my interpretation are not on the same page.
and you're right, i will admit that this has lead to frustration of members in disciplinary discussions with me. it's definitely a hurtful struggle because i try so so hard and i always have good intentions, but a lot of times my intentions are misinterpreted.
all i can do is keep trying to improve on it, wish there was a quick fix that could instantly solve this problem but unfortunately i don't think there is lol