[LAblondeGPhi]

mdm999 - you sound pretty articulate and remorseful about the situation. That bodes well for you, despite the fact that I would have the same concerns these other folks have had about your risk status.

That said, I think it's very possible that this young man has learned a valuable lesson, and will be better prepared to handle the temptations of college than most 18-year-olds. I think it will be that much more important for you to prove yourself a mature, responsible student throughout the recruitment process and in any interaction with classmates and hallmates in the spring.

I'd suggest sticking to a simple "I stayed home to earn some money for college and take care of some family concerns." Emphasize that those issues have been resolved, you're in a good place to afford Greek life now, and that you feel 100% ready to commit to college life.

Be careful, though, about folks who know your history from back home. I think the worst thing that could happen for you is if you go around telling the "stayed home to earn money for college" story to the fraternities, and a student from back home who knows the real reason tells everyone about your legal trouble.