To the OP: I'm still in contact with my Big, after (mumble mumble) years, however I can't recall what I had for breakfast, much less who my little was. Although I think I know. But I'm not sure. Which is kind of funny.
If your big is no longer in the chapter (guessing he is no longer a member? or was it a typo and you meant "now graduated" instead of "not graduated") then it seems that you have figured out a good solution for yourself already! You have someone who wants to adopt you - go for it! I wish you good luck because I think you would like to have a more positive experience, and I think you are taking steps to achieve that goal. The whole Letters thing is big in college, I hope you can get some letters to wear. And t shirts. And all that stuff. Like hats. Because honestly it looks dumb to me when old farts and fartesses wear letters. THAT IS MY OPINION.
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"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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