I agree with if you want to mention partying then it should be phrased more of "I like to go dancing w/ my friends." If you happen to be from the same town as the rusher you can mention some of the places you go to.
I wouldn't try to tailor your answers too much based on whether a house has a party or non party rep. Heck, you could catch a chapter during a year when they're trying to revamp their image. The party house could be "turned off" and the non party house is thinking "perfect".
But definetely play up you various interests. I know girls that'll party till the cows come home. But they'll also be able to debate politics and philiosphy. They're just that good.