Have you tried talking to her in a non-confrontational way about your concerns? Not calling her out when she does something hurtful, a la...
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I've told her that sometimes things she says offends me and that I will speak up when they do, but at this point, I don't want to do that because I don't want to save our friendship.
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...but a serious, sit down, one-on-one talk where you express concern that your friendship may be deteriorating and that you'd like to take steps to fix it. Even if you
don't want to fix it, the goal is to be back on at least cordial terms until your lease is up.