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Originally Posted by olemisspnm2014
Not sure if I'm allowed to ask this here but here goes.
Are there any tricks of the trade to know that you really did have a good round or didn't have a good round if you thought you did? I have heard things about indicators being where you sit or if you met many girls vs. meeting one.
I know PNMs are supposed to relax, but girls are speculating and I'm nervous.
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No. You can't read into any of that stuff. It's just different from chapter to chapter, and often not NEARLY as systematic as you might think. For example, PNM's often think that it's a big deal that they get introduced to the chapter president. Maybe that's because the rusher signaled that things weren't going well and the chapter president came over to say hello. Maybe the chapter president said hello to the women who happened to be in the room she needs to be in so that she could be in proper position for the skit. You just can't assume anything until you get your invite list.
All that said, if it helps you be less nervous, know that very few women get entirely released from recruitment.