[ElvisLover]

The uncivil part of it comes into play probably because OM has the reputation as all things lovely and proper, while, in reality, their recruitment is "nice-to-your-face and then cut you before you're out the door." Whereas, at other schools across the country, recruitment might be conducted in a less phony manner. A lot of Southern women have enmity just below the surface, but are adept at cloaking it in graciousness.