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here is drama from a guy....
there is this girl who i have been friends with for over 10 years. in high school we messed around every so often. we basicaly used eachother to experiment before we were in realationships with other people, then when we were in a dry spell we would have eachother for our sexual fustraitions.... we never had sex because i always was the one who didnt want it to complicate things. anyway, this summer we ended up having sex. the next day i left and went on vacation with my family, so i didnt get to call her for a few days. about a week after the dirty-deed we were talking online. she starts asking me all these questions:
how did it make you feel?
what did it mean to you?
you didnt have an emotional connection?
do you regret it?
well i finaly told her that it was like a one night stand, but with a girl i would call the next day and still be friends with. i told her it was just sex. we did not make love, and it was not fucking because i did not use her.
anyway, she got all emotional like girls do and started to put words into my mouth. i kinda got mad, and i could tell she was not happy with me. so i decided to let her cool off, and figured that she would call me when she was ready to talk again. within a week i had people asking me "is kelly mad at you?" so i knew she was mad and letting other people know. i got mad because this was all drama caused by her, and it was starting to get to me.
3 weeks later after not talking at all i was at the movies with a friend. we were leaving as she was waiting outside with a few of my other friends. i saw her then took off in the other direction. i did not know if she saw me, but i was shaken up...you know how when you have drama with some one then you see them when you really dont want to?? anyway, so i went out to 3 bars with my friend, then went back to the movie theater to wait for my boss (i work at the cold stone right next to it) to go out for one last drink. as i was helping my bpss lock up the door guess who walks out of the movies...kelly.
so i say hi to my friends that she is with, but ignore her because i could not bring myself to speak to her. anyway, she called me the next day and we talked. we are cool now, but its hard to get back to where you once where if there was that much drama.
the moral of my story:
IF YOU'RE GONNA FUCK A FRIEND, DO NOT LET DRAMA DEVELOP....TALK STUFF OUT BECAUSE THAT FRIENDSHIP IS NOT WORTH A PEDY FIGHT OVER SEX!
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