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OP, my grandmother and all her sisters were Thetas, and my grandparents met at a Sigma Chi/Theta mixer in college. I KNEW I was going to be a Theta when I went to college (I knew nothing else about sororities except Theta). You know what? I was cut by Theta. Just because your grandmother was a Theta doesn't mean you're going to be a Theta.

This is nothing against Theta--I have many friends who are Thetas, it is a fantastic organization that any young woman would be lucky to be a part of, and I actually have a soft spot in my heart for it because my grandmother was in it --but my point is: Just because you're a legacy to a sorority,it does NOT mean you will automatically be selected by that sorority. I went in with that mindset and it almost cost me a chance of being in any sorority.

I agree with others that your age may work against you. I know that is hard to hear. But I suggest giving Pi Phi a chance, and if you don't like it, try formal recruitment. Good luck!