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Originally Posted by andthen

^^Yes!!! I'm glad the Ravens took this matter seriously and cut him based on clear conduct/anger management issues. However, his then fiancee who went on to marry him, even after he did that to her...that I don't understand.

It's called battered persons syndrome.

When Battered Person Syndrome (BPS) manifests as PTSD, it consists of the following symptoms: (a) re-experiencing the battering as if it were recurring even when it is not, (b) attempts to avoid the psychological impact of battering by avoiding activities, people, and emotions, (c) hyperarousal or hypervigilance, (d) disrupted interpersonal relationships, (e) body image distortion or other somatic concerns, and (f) sexuality and intimacy issues.[6]

Additionally, repeated cycles of violence and reconciliation can result in the following beliefs and attitudes:[7]

The abused thinks that the violence was his or her fault.

The abused has an inability to place the responsibility for the violence elsewhere.

The abused fears for their life and/or the lives of their children (if present).

The abused has an irrational belief that the abuser is omnipresent and omniscient.