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The whole concept of tiers is just so frustrating to me. Based on what?? Looks? How well they did in a homecoming decorating contest or talent competition? Grades? Who determines this??
It creates an environment where girls come in thinking they need a certain chapter or chapters because they are in the top tier by someone's estimation.
What is important is to find like minded people you can see yourself forging a bond with. So if you are a high achiever and high grades are really important to you, then look for a chapter that holds those ideals high. If you want a chapter that is a bit more "laid back" and isn't super competitive about things, then look for a chapter with those qualities. If you are preppy, hippie, athletic, etc.....look for girls you feel may share those qualities, though I am sure every chapter will have girls who fit those descriptions.
College is a time to begin thinking for yourself and to not be narrowed down into thinking your must fit in a "tier".
Last edited by NorthernMom; 09-05-2014 at 11:24 AM.
Reason: typos!
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