don't worry about that! at my school, all the rushees are randomly assigned to a rho chi group. all the girls in these groups rotate through the parties together on the first night of rush. you don't get to choose who's in your group, even if you have friends who are rushing. and on the following nights, you are assigned to attend the party at a specific time for the places that invite you back.
the point is, it doesn't matter at all if you know any of the rushees in the parties with you! the point is to talk to the sisters! at my school, the way the parties are structured, you'd have no chance to talk to the other rushees during the parties, you're so busy being introduced from sister to sister.
these aren't "parties" like you're thinking of..... it's not like you stand around a keg with a group of rushees waiting for the sisters to talk to you..... the sisters come to you right away---that's the point of the parties. these parties are highly structured so that you're always talking to a sister.
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