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I TOTALLY understand. I think the other side of the coin is difficult too - a chapter that you would have had a bad experience in might be something the girl receiving the rec would fit perfectly in.
I think all you can do is say with your rec, this is a lovely accomplished girl of good character, but if there isn't a fit I understand. This is/was probably easier to do when the girl had no idea she was being rec'ed. (Did that used to be the norm?)
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