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I'm so happy for you and your daughter, UNCAlum!!! I wish my own daughter's experience had been as positive. She wasn't happy with the house she Preffed at, and wanted to drop out before signing her pledge card but the rush adviser encouraged her to sign it. She went to the bid day celebration and met several really sweet girls and they seem to be so happy she is there. She said she can't keep the "tent talk" out of her head and is afraid she'll be stigmatized at UNC for being in this one particular sorority. I am SO SO angry and disappointed at her reaction, and have to admit that it embarrasses me to tell you all this. I'll let a few days go by, but if her attitude hasn't improved, I might encourage her to drop out. (I wasn't in a sorority, so I can't really relate - if this is the wrong advice, let me know!) The last thing this wonderful group of kind, welcoming young women needs is a pledge that doesn't appreciate them.
UNCAlum, sorry to bring the mood of this thread down! I truly am so happy for your daughter!
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