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Originally Posted by pinksequins
In their minds, they simply do not want the chapter. They would rather not be Greek (whether or not that is a fair or correct assessment). Chastising someone may, in fact, reinforce the PNMs view rather than persuade her otherwise.
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But this is obviously NOT the case of the OP as she started her post indicating that she SIP'd and wanted to know about COB.
In cases like this I have to agree with ALS463, it is hard for me to imagine that in a chapter of 300+ women and a new member class of at least 130, that she could't find someone to form a relationship with.
But I do understand that 18-19 year olds don't look beyond what they see in front of them. They are 1) listening to the tent talk and 2) only thinking about the sisters they have spoken too, not the 200+ that they have never talked too.