[Katmandu]

TexasDancer, I'm sorry you had a tough week. The reality is that all of the PNMs at a place like Texas, Ole Miss, Auburn, OU, fill in the blank, are smart, poised, active, connected and typically attractive and well groomed and thanks to mom and dad, well dressed. The pool is just has a lot of parity.

You didn't fall through the cracks. You had a chapter that was interested in you. For whatever reason, you weren't interested in them. Rushing as a soph is even more tough. Texas is a big place and there are a lot of clubs, activities and people who aren't Greek. I hope you find some great opportunities.

ETA...pref is such a game changer that you won't find a lot of sympathy for dropping out before Pref.