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Originally Posted by mzdad48
My young adult just finished with rush and got a bid that was in her top 3. Her initial feelings were of joy and satisfaction although it was not her first choice.
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I wonder how much of her negativity was actually related to the fact that she did not get her first choice. Was she looking at the situation through disappointed glasses? Would she have been more willing to overlook some behavior that she didn't agree with if she had been running to join a group that she had wanted more?