[honeychile]

Not knowing the school or chapter involved, I would urge your daughter to give it at least a week (month). Having accepted the bid, she won't be able to accept another for a year whether she declines tomorrow or in a week (month). Give your daughter a chance to discover if there are sensible sisters in this sorority chapter. If she doesn't, then she can gracefully leave, knowing that they are not the chapter for her.