I can sympathize, I graduated from Northwestern, and was Greek, but it was a whole different story there 25 years ago. I was clueless during rush and luckily ended up in the perfect house for me. My daughter is also going through Mizzou rush, I've tried to tell her what I remember, but SEC rush is an entirely different animal. Greek life is not popular in our home state and almost nonexistent at the large puplic university that most of her friends are going to, so she is blazing this trail alone, Good luck to your daughter, Walkinthewoods, hopefully neither of us will have to pick up the pieces on Sunday!