As evidenced by this thread on THAT site…
http://www.greekrank.com/uni/85/topi...-side-of-rush/
It always makes me a little mad/sad that these women (at least say that they) are willing to drop all ties with their sorority because their daughter didn't receive a bid from their chapter/sorority. That's clearly not the answer. Things are obviously much different than they were 25 years ago, and as has been said, it's not personal.