[tea&krumpets]

Thanks for the help ladies! Especially LAblondeGPhi - lots of excellent suggestions. We don't have a house, suite, etc, which would definitely make it easier, but all of the other things you suggested I can definitely do. I think I knew that I need to do those things all along, but you verbalizing it helped me realize it.

DGTess - I can't deny that the other group is priority #1 (as I said, God comes first, always, for me.) However, I don't think that means I have to disaffiliate from my sorority. My sorority is most certainly #2, and not a distant #2. I guess what I mean by recommit is making more of an effort to go to all those things LAblondeGPhi mentioned. This past year, once I wasn't going to chapter as much, it was really easy to just not go to those other events, or make excuses like working on homework (true, but still). Chapter, once set by the university, is not movable, so I'll alternate every other week again if its on the same day as my other meeting. But by recommit I really mean going to all those extra events, because I feel that's where most bonding with sisters really occurs.