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IFC/NIC Fraternities are very different than NPC Sororities when it comes to this topic.
A lot will depend on both your current group's policies, whether any chapter would be willing to bid you at your new school, and their policies. I'd say you should take the alumni status.
My thoughts:
1) Please get whatever help you need for your depression. Especially if there's family history, it's not going away on its own. Use whatever resources you have at your disposal.
2) Please consider anonymously reporting the hazing. Since it sounds like it's pretty darn bad it's likely you aren't actually the only one having issues. People don't want to be "that guy" so it's easier to do nothing. Please think of those other brothers, the pledges, and future brothers. You may not feel any loyalty to these guys but think of the bigger picture, please.
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