I was just curious as to when Eclipse became God. How dare you judge any of the ladies who have kids and are on line...or Anyone for that matter. I would personally have a lot of respect for any woman who manages, not only,to meet the requirements of the intake process (the gpa, community service, etc.), but are still able to fulfill the vigorous requirements of being a mom. The term "Superwoman" immediately pops in my mind! And as far as your self-righteous comments regarding babis out of wedlock,no husband,setting a bad example for youngerladies (yadda,yadda,yadda)...I feel it's sad that this is the way you choose to see the situation. What about the single teen parent out there? (and whether we like it or not, they are out there)I would think they would benefit more from a positive black sister that could show them how despite being a single mother they can achieve anything in life. Whether that be graduating from college or joining a sorority. The last thing they would need is for someone, as yourself, to reinforce the notion that they are an unacceptable entity in our society that should be banned from joining sororities or any other activity that should only be open to the perfect women of the world (such as yourself). Give me a break! AND...as for the young ladies who don't have kids, I'm sure seeing an unmarried member of a sorority with child is not going to make an other wised intelligent, responsible person to take it as "the green light" to go out and get pregnant. Granted, God may frown upon someone getting pregnant without first being married but He also warns against us passing judgement on others. I don't remember the name of the woman who posted the original question, but I send nothing but encouragement to you. Any negative vibes you may get from some of these replies have nothing to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with the person from which they came. To Eclipse, try seeing the glass as half full for a change.