Well...joining a sorority is contingent on the qualifications an aspirant possess at the time of application.
I agree with some of the points all of you have made, but I lean toward what Eclipse said. My Sorors may even see things differently, but here goes. Number one, I can't deny my Christian beliefs... Number two, belonging to a Sorority who has as one of it's founding principles, Finer Womanhood, a woman's reputation and how she carries herself does come under consideration.
Should a woman with children be bared from membership in my eyes? It depends on the individual and the circumstances (career, finances, support system, educational commitments or goals, etc.). I have initiated women with children - single, and at that time the child was not an issue.
To answer your question, it is not a problem unless it jeopardizes your child's health and happiness, your sanity and happiness, and you find it to be one.
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Sweet Deliverance's PHI-losophy:
"What you do or do not do today determines what you can or cannot do tomorrow."
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