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Originally Posted by hottytoddypnm14
Oh I fully understand that. Your response just made me feel that you were under the impression I was biast to a sorority. all I am saying is most girls going through this year do not have the new sorority as their #1 choice.
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Originally Posted by pinksequins
HTPNM: Facts are inherently true, so the adjective is unneeded. Moreover, unless you know and have canvassed each of the 1000+ PNMs (and registration has not closed), your allegation is mere hearsay based on a statistically flawed sample. It does not meet the definition of "fact". Despite your protests to the contrary, you seem to be heavily influenced by gossip.
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This.
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Originally Posted by hottytoddypnm14
Okay. I am very sorry I've now upset everyone by a simple statement. This is obviously not the best place for me to ask any questions
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Relax. Chill out. Don't flounce. No one was rude to you. Everyone is just telling it like it is. Just make sure you're open to ALL groups. There isn't a bad one in the bunch. And PLEASE, whatever you do, DON'T listen to what other people are saying about how "most PNMs feel" or how "every chapter already has their bid lists made" or anything else like that. They're rumors. And even if none of the other PNMs want to be in the newest sorority on campus, that doesn't mean it wouldn't be a good fit for you. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Follow your own path. Otherwise, you might end up extremely disappointed, either because you have no bid, or because you have a bid to a group that was considered the "popular chapter", but doesn't fit your style and personality.
Don't get caught up in made-up statistics and talk of the "best" chapters. Try to block all of that stuff out. At this point, all you can do is get your outfits together, build conversation skills, go through recruitment and be yourself, and hopefully everything will fall into place. Worrying about anything else won't help you.
Good luck!