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Your big is your big. I pledged (ancient history) as a freshman, my big was a senior. Once I was initiated (beginning of my second semester) she spent all her time with her boyfriend and I saw very little of her. She and I have been in and out of contact with each other ever since. I had 2 littles. 1 turned in her pin, the other one fell off the end of the earth. No idea if my "family" line still exists.
You don't need a big. The purpose is to help you learn the ropes, answer questions and help you feel welcomed into the group. Go out and make friends, be a sister to all!
DaffyKD
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