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It's YOUR TURN to be the "Big". Sounds to me like you have some preconceived ideas of what your relationship is/was supposed to be, and you feel like you got "gypped" because you only had one year with your own "Big" and it wasnt the super close friendship you wanted. Oh well. Too bad, so sad.
You can nurture your own new "Littles" and see where that goes. And FWIW I'm still in contact with my own "Big" (from back when dinosaurs roamed the Earth) and I have no idea what happened to my "Littles". Time has a way of doing that, you know.
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"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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