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The one thing I did want to clear up though is that not everyone who affiliates at other schools is doing it because the chapter is better there. We have a bunch of girls(like 5) affiliating with our chapter in the fall. And I know that these girls are not just affiliating because they wanted to be a DG on my campus. They all have been in their chapters for over a year and one even has a sister who we initiated with out even knwing she was a legacy. And that is actually why she is transfering, to be with her sister. The girl who is transfering was initated before her sister and we pledged her sister without even knowing she was a leg. So i am sure if we would have pledged her sister we would have pledged her too. But then again we have meet all the girls transfering and even if one of them is transfering just to be a DG at my school we would have bid her anyways because we met all the girls and well they are wonderful and are going to be great additions to my chapter. Like someone else said these girls are my sister no matter what chapter they were initated in they are DG's. And i can only speak for my chapter but as long as the girl is in good financial standing and the chapter of her initiation had not problems with her we let her in. We were told this is how we are supposed to do it. But then again we have never had a girl try to affiliate that we could not see in my chapter.
On another note. I took offence to the coments made about DG's at other schools not being so good. Now I understand that ever Organization has great chapters and not so great chapters but there is a reason that each girl chooses a certain sorority. I just do not feel that people on here should be saying negative things about other sororities. I mean maybe the reasons I choose DG were very superficial, but people choose for other reasons. And even if you mean no harm from what you are saying it could definatly hurt someones feelings, esspecially someone from the house you are talking about. And I just want people to remember that when talking about a national sorority there are many different chapter with many differnet types of girls, so try to not generalize and say we see XYZ as the "ugly girls". Plus who is to say who is attractice or not. Differnet parts of the country do consider certain looks more or less attractive. I guess my point is try not talking crap about houses, it is just not nice. You would never tell someone to their face that they are the house with the ugly girls or guys so why would you say that here!!!
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