[lionlove]

Thanks for the advice everyone and keep it coming!

I agree with the whole disaffiliation idea and I see the reason for it. Unfortunatly, on my campus we have deferred rush until the fall of sophmore year so the PNMs see us affiliated with our chapters for a whole year before rush. Also, we apply for the rho chi position during the summer so we are still fully affiliated in the spring before rush.

On my campus we do have an unfortunate history of rho chis pressuring pnms to join their orgs. Almost always, these girls end up depledging and joining another sorority - the one they should have been with in the beginning. It's very sad.

AOIIalum, I won't post my story during rush because I have stated my college name and sorority name several times in previous posts but I'll post something after rush.