[AOII Angel]

I think for your peace of mind, stop asking "Why?" It's not worth it. It isn't worth it for biologically female women who aren't offered bids either. If you read recruitment stories on GC, you will see that asking ALWAYS leads to heartache. The stories you hear are hearsay, one sided and NEVER provide a full picture of why you did not receive a bid. Realize that it is unlikely that an entire group voted against you. Some of the groups very well may have decided you were ineligible for membership. You would need strong backing for a group to go head to head against their alumnae or HQ if they knew and said no. What you need to understand is that the institution of sororities is still too conservative to accept a MtoF transgender woman. It's not an indictment of you as a person but of society in general. Period.