Anna, I don't even know where to begin re: the ideas you have about sorority life. Believe me, if a sorority has 40 bids to give out in informal recruitment, they are in BIG trouble. They only gave out 9 of those? Here comes national to jerk their charter.
And a Greek Life adviser can't tell you that all the nationals said you could get a bid. I huugely doubt that any of them would go out on a limb and say that and it wouldn't be true anyway. A Greek Life adviser may not speak for the individual groups.
What's with the line "as long as you get a bid, the odds of you getting in are very high"? It's the same thing. Getting a bid=getting in.
You think you were kept out because of discrimination? Maybe, maybe not but we have many threads on GC about how it's practically impossible to get a bid as a senior. Even juniors are heavily cut on many campuses.
And I am still confused about your assertion that you know that non-Greeks at big campuses have no chance at a social life (due to what friends there told you) and that Greeks are denying trans people the opportunity to be involved on campus. So untrue.
This thread wins the award for the most disconnected thread in 14 years on Greekchat.