I don't think it takes a rocket scientist to figure out the "I have a friend" story would be about herself. But to the OP, member selection is private and anything you hear about what was said in those meetings can't be trusted. Girls will say a lot to an outsider that will be wrong either in their intent to make the recipient feel better or because the member misunderstood what was happening around her.
And my apologies for not using the most current language.
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"Traveling - It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. ~ Ibn Battuta
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