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I feel like I did something wrong now by buying a girl shots and ending up having "Casual Sex" with her. It's not like I go around banggin a different chick everytime I go out or preying on the women at bars. I too believe in having a girlfriend. I'd much rather have a girlfriend over being single and having my little board of late night booty calls ( Which I still have hanging on my wall as though it is a trophy). The thing with girlfriends is, the emotional side of them keeps getting in the way. My reaction to their emotional state depends on how long I've been with them. If I 've been dating a girl for a LONG time, then I care very much for her. This is why it is so hard when a breakup occurs. If it's a girl I've been dating for a matter of weeks or a month, I have a tendency to either never call them again and block their numbers or tell them I can't deal with their shit, so get the Fu** out! Believe me, the last thing I want is an STD or a little UF_Pike running around. Luckily I don't have any STDs nor a little UF_Pike. I do have one theory about girlfriends though. If you date a girl for a LONG time, I think they take safety precaution measures to ensure them coming out on top in case of a break up. Now every male knows that if you date a girl for a long time, you are going to have sex like 4 or 5 times a day and your not going to use 4 or 5 condoms. So what happens? The girl gets on the pill! In the mans mind he's thinking "ahhhh, the pleasure of never having to pull out" . Well He never pulls out and after a year or two they break up. This is the most detrimental moment in a young males life. He just dated this girl for a year or so and never had to use a condom. So what happens the next time he has sex? He can't get off!!!!!! At first he thinks it's because he's not over his ex-but eventually he realizes its the condom. I think females do that sh*t on purpose so that when or if they break up, the male cannot have sex with another girl and enjoy it without taking a huge risk by not wearing a rubber. Eventually it gets to the point where the male knows he's not going to "reach the ultimate reason for sex" but still has it just to feel like a man. This leads to an even worse situation. When this happens, the question soon arises, " whats wrong?" " want to try a different position?", which is followed by the males response, " No, it's just me". This often leads to an ending of the sex and leaves an awkward feeling of dissatisfaction from both parties involved. So what happenes? They don't have sex for awhile and the girl ( if she's smart ) ends up getting on the pill and surprises the guy one night. The whole process starts all over again as the guy beings to think, "aahhh, no condom"!
CarolinaDG----"I've only been in love once, and we didn't have sex. Not because we were both virgins, waiting until marriage, but because we loved each other so much that sex wasn't one of our top priorities... stuff like getting to know each other, meeting each other's parents, and going out on actual dates were."
Babe, I'm going to tell you something your older sisters should have told you long ago. NO COLLEGE GUY DOES NOT HAVE SEX IN THE MIND! The things is babe, you think that it wasn't one of his priorities because he never made an advancement on you. If you look as good as you say you do, then no guy would not want to have sex with you. He obviously didn't feel that you wanted to and probably never brought it up, I'm assuming he was going to leave it up to you. I've read your post on your ex, who you loved. I saw that the two fo you didn't date long nor saw each other that day in and day out. Please don't take this the wrong way, but don't you think the reason he stopped dating a girl that was hot and went to a different school could stem from the fact that she didn't have sex? You have to understand, males are in their sexual prime in their "college years", thus making their hormones active and increasing their sexual drive. Women don't hit this till their late 20's and early 30's, it usally lasts for 7-12 years. YES, he wanted to meet your parents and YES, he wanted to go on dates but you are not thinking rationally if you deny the statement that sex was on his list of "To do ASAP". I would advise you go and talk to some older sisters in your chapter. Look for girls that are 22 or 23, if they are still around. If you have any questions they are the ones you need to speak with, they have been around for sometime and more than likely have been through any situation you can go through with a guy, thats what their there for!
As for the comment, "Call me a hopeless romantic, but I don't want the next time I have sex to be this drunken f***, rather a great experience with someone that I really care about, who I know will call me the next day, and who I know everything will be all right afterwards."
That is good sweety. At the same time though, you have to understand, there are three different types of sex! There is the sex for the mind, sex for the body and sex for the heart! Sex for the mind is the drunken sex. Sex for the body is the sex you have when you come back from classes all day long or work and your back is aching , as well as your shoulders and neck. This sex normally releases all tension in your bbody and is a good remedy for stress. Then there is Sex for the heart. This is the so called "Love making" that many women enjoy most. They enjoy it mainly because they are women and are full of emotions.Often times they base their descions on how they feel rather than facts, this is most noted when you see a guy who is a dic* to his girlfriend but she still stays with him because she loves him while denying the statements her girls make as "He such a dic* to you" and the like. Most men enjoy the excitement and fast paced sex that is often associated with drunken sex. This is where the personalities collide and bad shit starts happeneing. Anyhow, I hope I clarified things up with up.
As far as dating greeks----- I KNOW what you MEAN! While I will be one to admit I am cocky as well as stuck on myslef to a certain degree, we both agree on dating greeks. I'm a sucker for blonde greek women, mainly ones from a *certain* sorority. I think the reason for it is because most men in my family went PIKE and most of the women in my family went DG. Year after year leading up to my college years I was always told, " Look for these girls, they are the best." By the time I came to college I was shocked to find out most of them are HOT and are from S-Florida just as me. I thought it was even more crazy when i actually joined my chapter, only to find out most of the girls we hung out with were in that *certain* sorority. So you see, I'm a sucker for life. Oh and I did my fair share of community service at the volunteer Fire Department.
I too have very high standards. I'm about as picky as they get.If you would have seen this girl, she would have given many, many, many girls a run for their money. She was INSANELY HOT! I could also tell she wasn't some dirty little slut. I know she had bunch of things all piling up on her at once. Thats why she went out that night.This is why I kinda felt bad about the whole incident with her and how our relationship ended. I would rather us just be friends and hang out rather than be enemies. Most women are won by my personality, looks and charm. I'm not that type of person to keep a girl drunk everynight so that she's comfortable with me.
As for h200t-----------*BARF* on you too o' permiscuious one!
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