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I totally agree with 33girl's comments and while it seems most PNM's pledge their active sister's chapter, I always tell legacy PNM's that I meet with my story. I was a junior in college when my sister went through and she pledged something different which was right for her! We were at a school with deferred recruitment so that was a factor in that she had already made friends (who my sorority was not rushing) and she was not hanging out with girls we were rushing. As hard as it was at the time (for both of us), I'm glad she followed her heart! What ends up being more important is your pledge class because those are the sisters you will bond with the most. So look around at the girls going through with you even though you may have just met them. Your sister and her friends will be gone in 2 years.
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